Gay Andy

August 17, 2010

Rike came to see me last night . . .

Filed under: Uncategorized — gayandy @ 3:12 pm

Rike came to see me last night. He seemed calm. He wanted to talk. He talked and I listened. I showed him the video I posted for him to see in my blog. He watched it and he listened to the words in the video. When you scroll down the page you can watch the video I posted for Rike. I think me and him took one cautious step towards each other again last night. When he’s typing he looks like he’s playing the piano, lol, but it’s because he broke my keyboard when we had a fight the other night and it’s hard to type on it now.

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  1. I do hope you can get Rike to control himself. He must realise you’re maybe the only real friend he still has. But please don’t give him the opportunity to hurt your pets again. That was, as you said, unforgivable by anyone else than you.

    Comment by BrianW — August 17, 2010 @ 3:54 pm | Reply

  2. choking daisy was evil…sorry andy

    Comment by lance — August 17, 2010 @ 4:35 pm | Reply

  3. Hi David, It does look like there's a special bond between you and Rike. Maybe he's just going through a bad patch. It is a difficult age to be after all and he's been through so much without a steady family. It might take a bit of work on your part to get him back on track.Thanks for the comment on Beauty Hunter. The Macbook sounds like a good idea.Dee. xx

    Comment by Anonymous — August 17, 2010 @ 5:49 pm | Reply

  4. Hey Andy,Obviously, you are a forgiving person. You will give Rike a chance to come back to you. This time, I don't think an apology from him is enough. He must redeem himself, meaning he will from now on do something for you and make a solemn promise not to act violently for whatever reason. If I were you, I would set up some ground rules for him to observe while he is at your house and in your company.I think Rike needs professinal help to control his violent temper. It is best for him and for you because all of us are not professionally equipped to help him with attitude and behavioural changes. He needs that more than anything. I can't believe I'm giving his advice. I usually keep silent about fights between friends and lovers. I was compelled to do it because I am very concern for you and your family's safety, including your pets. Caesar Augustus

    Comment by Anonymous — August 17, 2010 @ 6:09 pm | Reply

  5. I don't mean to sound rude but it sounds like your setting yourself for another fight.Remember last time?You threw punches,then later you said your "friendship was stronger than ever" now a couple of days later you get into this huge ugly thing.I'm just to be careful.

    Comment by Anonymous — August 17, 2010 @ 9:46 pm | Reply

  6. I told you Rike is a good guy inside; he came to see you to try and make amends. In our teen years it is easy to lose your temper (hormones lol) and do and say things you regret later when you think about it; actually Rike is not too much out of the ordinary as far as teens go. Lots of teens get into a lot worse trouble than he does. Tell him to count to 10 and talk before lashing out at his bff. I hope Daisy doesn't bite him lol. bfn – Wayne 🙂

    Comment by wayner — August 17, 2010 @ 10:16 pm | Reply

  7. Agony Aunts – maybe Uncles in your case – always tell partners to walk away from a violent relationship. But you, David, seem to be between partner – or friend – and counsellor for Rike.It would be good for you to read a little about anger management. (E.G on http://www.counselling-directory.org.uk/anger.html) I'm no expert, but it seems to me that setting limits and enforcing respect from Rike is essential in creating the right relationship for you to help him. And for your own safety.But who was it said: Amateur psyciatry is a Blood Sport? It was me, right now. Good luck, David.

    Comment by BrianW — August 17, 2010 @ 11:19 pm | Reply

  8. IDK kid…what happened to change the facts in your mind? Loneliness? I mean, I understand the thought process here… I've lived it, but, loneliness is a vital part of these relationships.. If you were less lonely, you would be in a better position to cope with this… I don't hate Rike… not yet… I hope I never do. I pity him… Are you continuing this for his sake, or, for yours?? Well, I won't ask any more questions… I'm in no position to criticize. I lived this way for too long in my own life to tell you to change it… I know it's not easy. I thought I was pretty streetsmart in that respect, but, I was a novice compared to the manipulator that pulled the strings in my relationship. I wish you well, David!! Stay safe… luv, tman<3

    Comment by tman — August 18, 2010 @ 2:14 am | Reply

  9. He don't look sorry to me……and I reckon the only reason he came visit was that he wanted to use your mac and had to fix the keyboard first to do so. Sorry but it's pathetic. He needs you for selfish reasons and you need him for reasons of the heart….until next time David..until next time!!

    Comment by Daz — August 18, 2010 @ 6:34 am | Reply


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