Gay Andy

August 16, 2010

Rike, please listen to the words of this song!

Filed under: Uncategorized — gayandy @ 8:28 pm


  1. OH David… I just got back from a tough day of work… a rewarding day, nonetheless… I listened to this song and felt my heart breaking- for you. I know you love him… Now, tho, you have to be strong. He needs to understand how devastating his behavior was. Even if it takes a week, or a month, or, a lifetime… you have to wait and be certain that he understands and will never bring this viciousness back into your friendship… It's simply too dangerous. in the past 6 months, there has been an escalation of violence in Rike's life- you documented some of it here. Maybe you have forgotten, or don't want to face that, but, you must… This kind of thing almost always has a bad ending. Please be careful and thoughtful about this.. I don't want to lose you to some awful circumstance that should have been avoided… luv, tman<3

    Comment by tman — August 16, 2010 @ 9:25 pm | Reply

  2. I don't think Rike is a bad person; I think he is a frustrated person. He needs to talk honestly with you and confidentially if that is what he wants. He has too much talent and brains to let it go down the wrong road. When he was blogging for a short time I tried to tell him to think long-term and set some goals, which is difficult for a teen to do but gives you a sense of direction and purpose. You need to talk to him about where you guys want to go in the future and what you both want to do; school is coming up and this should be the focus for the both of you. If he thinks long-term then he will also think twice about getting into trouble. I don't know why it is, but the last two weeks of the summer always seem to be when shit happens; too much idleness and boredom. Rike has been dealt a bad hand with his family situation but his grandmother has been wonderful and he has friends who care. Ask him to talk to you as a friend when he feels overwhelmed or down; that is what friends are for, and not lash out. I mean c'mon, you guys have been best friends for years and now you and Rike are throwing that away? Maybe the psychologists are right when they say communication is the problem. bfn – Wayne 😦 (if you're reading this Rike I know there is a good guy inside!)

    Comment by wayner — August 16, 2010 @ 11:56 pm | Reply

  3. Hey Andy,I am so sorry you are still hurting. I understand completely. Let me just remind you about this fact of life.The love bug can be treated, but it can not be cured. Fortunately for all of us, there is truth in that. We can treat the love bug with another love bug. It is wonderful that there are plenty of other love bugs out there. We must keep on looking until we find the love bug who will love and cherish us best.And also good for all of us is that the love bug is incurable. This impels us to keep on trying to find a cure. So Andy, love is really circular, never a straight line. It is not even a two-way street where lovers can meet. The lovers will just pass each other travelling in opposite directions. If ever the lovers meet on a two-waystreet, they would just collide. To treat love as circular where the lovers can always meet and go through life holding each other's hand is the best. I hope you feel better soonest.Caesar Augustus

    Comment by Anonymous — August 17, 2010 @ 12:13 am | Reply

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