Gay Andy

April 14, 2010

Jamie wanted to fight me!

Filed under: Uncategorized — gayandy @ 10:18 pm

I just got home from school. I was walking down the street to my house and Jamie was waiting for me on the corner of my street. He wanted to fight me! He was pissed because I told his mom that I didn’t want Jamie coming to my house anymore because of his drugs and glue sniffing problems. His mom got angry at him and she told him to stay away from me. I sat down on the street curb. I’m not much of a fighter, especially without my purse to slap ’em up side the head with. lol 🙂

Jamie stood in front of me and glaringly looking down at me and he said why’d you tell on me to my mom? I explained to him that out of love for him I had to do something to try to get him some help. The only person who can help you is you Jamie. But when you’re ready for help I will do all I can to help you. He listened and then he again demanded to know why I told on him to his mom?

I’ve learned from experience that when talking to a pissed off person the worse thing i can do is get in their face and scream back at them. It’s better to talk calmly and quietly to someone who’s really, really angry. And Jamie was really, really angry!

He continued to stand over me with his fists clenched tight. He was ready to knock me into the next time zone. But sometimes brains is better than bran. That doesn’t look right. Brains is better than brune. Oh freeeeek how does it go?? Brains is better than bronze? Oh well whatever.

I used my head to out smart him. He finally calmed down enough to where he was willing to sit down on the curb next to me.
I explained to him that because of his drug addiction he’s loosing friends who used to love and care about him. I told him that I won’t abandon him. But I also told him that he’s not welcome into my house when he’s high on glue or pot. He then asked me when can he come to see me? I said anytime you want, as long as you aren’t high on something. He gave me a hug and said thanks. We got up from the curb and we walked down the street to my house. I let him use my computer. He wanted to check his messages. He asked me to take a pic of him so he can put it into his messenger profile. I took 2 pics. One from his back for you to see and another face photo for him to use in his messenger. Today was a good day with Jamie. He was happy. I was happy. And he wasn’t high. And that’s a good day.



  1. I'm beginning to believe you are a saint. You certainly do seem to always to do the right things. Keep up the good work, I hope it works.

    Comment by Anonymous — April 14, 2010 @ 10:27 pm | Reply

  2. Just discovered your blog,love itI will keep it on my daily reading list ^__^

    Comment by Oscar — April 14, 2010 @ 10:57 pm | Reply

  3. the word you're looking for is "brawn"good for you Andy. You really are a smart kid.

    Comment by Glenn — April 14, 2010 @ 11:17 pm | Reply

  4. You should be a psychologist Andy! Its not Jamie you don't like, its his substance abuse and I think you got the message across. In most situations, brains are better than brawn; everyone wants to be liked and that includes Jamie. If he keeps getting negative reinforcement about substance abuse, he might come around eventually; it means a lot more coming from his peers than it does adults. It would also be a shame to waste that hot body on drugs and glue when a nice girl would love to have him. Kind of interesting that he wants to have a gay friend though, and I respect him for that. bfn – Wayne 🙂 ps; I love dogs!

    Comment by wayner — April 14, 2010 @ 11:17 pm | Reply

  5. Hi there, AndyI think the word you were looking for is "brawn", meaning muscles, as opposed to brain.I think you did just the right thing with Jamie – not being confrontational when he was angry, explaining your position on him and drugs, and showing him he's still welcome if he's not high on something. I hope it gives him an incentive to stay clean. I fear, though, that you will still have to be prepared to turn him away from your house if he is high on something.Take careMark

    Comment by A Wandering Pom — April 14, 2010 @ 11:26 pm | Reply

  6. @ wayne – Jamie has a girlfriend. He taps it almost everyday w/o protection. A couple of days ago he told me he thinks he got her pregnant because she's bigger in her tummy. I asked him when's the first time you boned her? He said about a month ago and he's been hitting it almost everyday since then. I told him i think it's too early for a baby to show in the tummy area. I'm no expert in having babies and so I'm probably not the one to ask about stuff like that.

    Comment by gay Andy — April 15, 2010 @ 12:00 am | Reply

  7. @ Mark and Glenn thx for helping me out. Sometimes my spelling has more bran, omg i did it again. Hold on a sec while i look at your comments. Ok, it's Brawn gawd why can't i remember that? I was trying to say that sometimes my spelling has more "brawn" than brains! lol

    Comment by gay Andy — April 15, 2010 @ 12:03 am | Reply

  8. @ anony – hmmmmm Saint Andy. That's has a nice sound to it don't you think? LOL – Thanks for your comment 🙂

    Comment by gay Andy — April 15, 2010 @ 12:04 am | Reply

  9. @ Oscar -You *heart* blog and I *heart* your wieners. I bet you've never heard that one before, right Oscar Mayer Wieners. LOL

    Comment by gay Andy — April 15, 2010 @ 12:06 am | Reply

  10. You have a good heart, kid… But, I've told you this before… Tell Jamie that he should really be mad at the fools that sell him the poison that he so willingly consumes… ergo, a little introspection would serve him well also.Of course, he won't understand anything you say, so just tell him that he's missing out on his education while he ruins his health… actually a very efficient way to kill yourself, so maybe he'll have a career in …. nahhh… he won't live long enough to have a career!!Ah, Dr. Andy… Que sera, sera!! luv, tman<3

    Comment by tman — April 15, 2010 @ 2:33 am | Reply

  11. I was on google and saw a link to your blog.Like what I saw.Now I made a blog to keep up with yours,And to put into words what goes unsaid.iGuess that means you inspired me, thanks.Having trouble making my first post,Really don't know what to put.Any advice?P.S.:Your life is interesting, its like degrassi but between the guys in your life and you.

    Comment by iDamion — April 15, 2010 @ 3:55 am | Reply

  12. I think I mentioned somewhere in my comments before that u seem like a smart kid or a kid who knows what's the right thing to do……n i was right!!!!Hahahaha…i LOVE being right! ;)Tht's a good thing u tried explaining it to Jamie…hopefully u'd knock some sense into both him and Rike!!U have my blessings! 😉

    Comment by Phunk Factor — April 15, 2010 @ 7:29 am | Reply

  13. Brain is better than brawn / Más vale maña que fuerzaBut someone already gave you the answer ;)You know a Andy, you've got your heart at the right place. I hope Jamies realises what kind of friend you are :)Kiss & hugErik

    Comment by Erik — April 15, 2010 @ 8:42 am | Reply

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