Gay Andy

April 6, 2010

Andy’s on a Roller Coaster ride called Life

Filed under: Uncategorized — gayandy @ 5:35 pm


  1. Hi Andy , oooo my sounds to crazy there!!!. hugs Dean, I will wait to wright more after you wright again. Dean

    Comment by Anonymous — April 6, 2010 @ 6:39 pm | Reply

  2. Good God, Andy… There's WAY too much going on here for a 16 year old guy to deal with!! This has become more like a rocket ride w/o a seatbelt, and somebody (maybe/probably you) is gonna get hurt… Get out of the middle, NOW, even tho you might be having a little fun. The lies and deceit will continue, and will only make things worse… I told you before that I have had people like Rike in my life before. I wasn't kidding… The only predictable thing about this is that it will be unpredictable… If you want your friendship w/Rike to last, remove yourself from the middle. It's only a matter of time, before you start getting blamed for this soap opera…You are trying to lead a decent life, Andy. I respect you and commend you for that. Don't get dragged down this snake hole!! Oh, and by the way, I'll bet that the 2 fools didn't use condoms last night… They're just too selfish and desperate for instant gratification to even consider it… 1 in 10 chance that they did… Of course, how could you believe anything they say, at this point, anyways?? luv, tman<3

    Comment by tman — April 6, 2010 @ 6:58 pm | Reply

  3. I envy you so much. I just sit here alone. I look at the phone wishing it would ring even it was somebody mad at me. I even wish mom was home to hastle me about my room. she has to work 2 jobs. summer's almost here so I can get a job. I think I may find some friends there it's a theme park.

    Comment by Anonymous — April 6, 2010 @ 7:23 pm | Reply

  4. @ anonymous… I read your comment and it sounded SO sad… I just want you to know that you're not alone, and I'm sending a hug your way… I hope it helps, just a bit! Also, you really should get out and about, so the job idea is a GREAT one… Sitting at home is the pits, and, unless a hot guy falls out of an airplane and thru your roof, or something (and lives!!|), you're not likely to meet that guy that's been waiting for you!! Good luck kid!! Get Out, the world awaits!! luv, tman<3

    Comment by tman — April 6, 2010 @ 8:29 pm | Reply

  5. Your enthusiasm was really splashing of the screen (into my Pepsi), but it's a complicated life you're living there. Your house sometimes seems like an internet café where Rike is using your pc and today Jamie too. But it's like tman already said, be careful. Everybody is sharing their stories with you. You can't help them all, the have to solve it theirselves. I can't read to read part 2. Take care of yourself. Kiss & Hugs,Erik

    Comment by Erik — April 6, 2010 @ 9:07 pm | Reply

  6. I just knew a girl was going to get knocked up by someone. So stupid. First, a girl should have enough sense to be on the pill, and second, the young guy should be using one of those free condoms. Duh. And guys doing drugs are experts at lying and covering up and getting more drugs. And glue is real brain-rot. If a guy must do drugs, let it be a little pot once in a while; it is the lesser evil. But don't give up on Rike; if he is stumbling in his efforts to be drug-free, he needs you now more than ever; but most of all he needs to be honest with you. Also if he is having unprotected sex with a girl, they have DNA tests these days to confirm paternity. Hello child support payments (and they can put you in jail if you don't pay!) But Rike should know there is only so much crap you can put up with, and lies and deceit is at the top of that list. Andy, you deserve someone who loves you and you know there are some guys out there. Get Rike to post on your blog and tell us about his situation; maybe we can help. We all mess up now and then, but we all should learn from our mistakes and not repeat them. Be nice to Lance; the guy seems to get hurt a lot. bfn – Wayne

    Comment by wayner — April 6, 2010 @ 9:56 pm | Reply

  7. Wow that sticks when a friend lies to you about what happened. But I'm glad Jammie told you what really happened. You seem like a good friend to all of them. Now as for you dumping two good friends. I wouldn't do that. Good friends are hard to come by.

    Comment by pyester1969 — April 6, 2010 @ 10:40 pm | Reply

  8. You need to think about it Andy. One side is you are going through a bad roller coaster and it keeps going up and down and it's running your life in the process and if Lance get's really jealous and thinks something has happened he may come after you.On the other hand, you and Rike have grown up together and have gone through a lot with each other and have grown strong and I'm sure you two will continue to get strong.It's up to you what you do If you want my opinion I will tell you but not before you ask me Ethan

    Comment by Ethan — April 7, 2010 @ 1:50 am | Reply

  9. First time poster, but your blog is great. Second man do you have a lot going on. Rike will come to eventually but it make take a while. Don't let yourself get to bogged down with them it will only make your life that much more stressful, give positive encouragement and if he is still going down that path that is his own decision, remember they have to want to get help. I know many people who have done drugs even in my own family and they will not change if they have no desire to. When drugs are involved in a relationship pregnancy usually ensues and 9 times out of 10 they will not fulfill there parental functions.

    Comment by Brandon — April 7, 2010 @ 4:13 am | Reply

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